Mental Health Awareness Week Day 6
Many people reading this are under lockdown due to Covid-19, so here are a few ideas of different ways to connect with family and friends. Social Interaction is limited at the moment, although if you are local you can at least meet and go walk, while still observing social distancing.
The Phone Call
Yes a good old fashioned phone call can brighten someone’s day. Keep in touch with friends and family as regularly as you can. Since we went on lockdown I have been speaking to my Mum twice a day and it really helps her feel ok. We lost my father to illness late last year and the phone call is a real lifeline for both of us.
The Planned Video Conference
There is nothing like being able to see someone and have a chat. Grab a coffee, a glass of wine, a glass of water, whatever you prefer and sit togehter and just chat about your day as you would if you were meeting in person. You could even agree a recipe to all cook and sit and virtually have a dinner party together. Many applications like zoom, skype and the hundreds of other that have suddently appreared on our horizon since lockdown are all great for this. They all have their pros and cons so just pick one that you all have and use that. Even whatsapp can video conference with 8 people now.
The Casual Conversation
You can’t go visit yet, so how do you manage that change conversation. Well this is another great way to use the video conferencing. Set up a meeting with family and friends, start the meeting and keep it open it a prominent position like the kitchen. That way, every time you pass by and another friend of family member is around, you have a quick converstaiton. With did this with my mum is Southend and my husband’s parents in Saint Lucia and it was lovely to just have these chance conversations between everyone.
Remember Work Colleagues Too
Remember all these things are just as important with work colleagues. It keeps relationship building even though you might all be working from home and it supports the team. Check in with each other, make time for social chit chat and talk about how things are for everyone. Parents are particulary challenged at the moment, trying to juggle kids, work and family. People in shared accomodation are equally challenged. Make sure you know people’s personal circumstances and do what you can to support them and schedule meetings that work for everyone to help reduce stress.
Virtual Games Nights
So many people doing a quiz night via social media. It is a great way to chill out and relax. Just make sure to balance on screen time with other things like fresh air and exercise or persuing a hobby.
Yes it is great to connect and social interaction is important but so is having time out. In a shared house of family home set a corner to be the quiet space where people can chill undisturbed, whatever chill means for them. Leave them unhampered to decompress. All of us are going a bit stir carzy or feeling the pressure of worry from time to time. Just acknowledge it and allow space.